I’m truly sick of hearing women say, ‘it is important for me to find a husband with a good earning power who will be able to provide financial security but I don’t want to be seen as a golddigger’.
The topic of marriage and money is an ancient and highly nuanced one.
Well, you know what – I think it is absolutely ludacris……… marrying someone just because they are financially stable does not make them a ‘perfect’ partner. It will not make them a ‘perfect’ husband or ‘father’.
Money should not be ‘paramount’ in ANY relationship. It truly disgusts me, I would rather marry a poor man with no shoes on his feet if he truly loved me before marrying someone that throws ‘dollar bills’ at me, to show his love.
How can woman even question this? And furthermore, to say, ‘I don’t want to be seen as a golddigger’ – well, you are! And every sane person on this earth would agree with me……
I can see that you might think, but, it will make my family financially secure, my children will have everything they want, I will have everything I want – but will you have a loving husband who you love unconditionally and who loves you unconditionally?
When you look at him and kiss him? Is it the dollar bills that you see in his eyes or is it the thought of the first time he gave you that single rose on your first date? Or is it the first time that he made love to you and told you you meant everything and nothing else mattered?
Just a thought ladies; live the life you dreamed of as a little girl, that is when you were truly innocent. You may have dreamed to be a princess- find the right man and he will treat you like one.
Don’t be blinded by money.
Whatever happened to just ‘falling in love?’
How bout a lil chillaxin? 