What happens when he isn’t interested?
Posted by chillaxinleila on May 22, 2007
One of my girlfriends called me today really upset. She has been seeing someone for almost 6 months, on and off, with complications.. like most relationships..
He tells her – him and her are never gonna happen.. he isn’t interested……..
I really didn’t know what to tell her…she loves this guy with all her heart and soul. I know personally how well they got on, how much she liked him and how much he had made her a better person..
The first thought was; put on your glad rags, head out, go on a date, retail therapy, have a bath, splash out on some cash…but…….when it comes down to it, it is just pushing the problem a side.. and if she really loves him; how can her feelings change?
What should we do at times like this? I mean, how do people get by.
She was completely head over heels in love with him and had hope for a long time that something could work out. Now her world has crashed down around her, i guess that’s life, but what if he was really the one for her?
Is there someone in this world for everyone??
Do we ever get over our first love?
emre kaya said
yea that sucks, i’m in the same situation but she never told me that it can never happen, still hanging out, still with expectations, still suffering…
i liked your blog btw…
sowmya said
i was in a similar situation..but i just moved on..there are always wide options..