Sex before Marriage – Right or Wrong?
Posted by chillaxinleila on May 22, 2007
So, the BIG question? I can see both sides of the coin.
As far as I see; sex is a natural thing that happens between two people that care about each other. So, why shouldn’t they express their feelings physically?
But I also believe that giving you pure body to your new spouse is the greatest gift you could possibly give them. It says that “I knew I would find the perfect mate some day and I saved myself for you”. That is so much better than, “I got tired of waiting so I gave it away to three other guys before I met you”.
Then there is the other issue of religion but regardless of religion, God’s will sometimes doesn’t have the power to stop raging hormones or a deep love for someone.
So.. is it right or is it wrong?
I’m adding this on because someone stated that, if you waited until you got married you could be sexually incompatible.
I don’t actually agree that anyone is sexually compatible – well, not at first.
Obviously, you have confident and overconfident people.. and then the opposite those that are reserved….
Two people will grow to know each other and what satisfies each other..
emre kaya said
plato once said “communism” is the most fair and equal system that the human being could ever be governed but it is also never applicable forever because humans neither want to be equal nor fair, there is jelousy, envy, greediness and hatred where they live, which they cannot get rid of…
so as a concept “yes” it is the best gift that a man or woman can give to his/her partner, but it is not mostly applicable, although you might see a lot of instances in some countries, it is not honest…
heartyheretic said
Either way, abstinence-only sex education doesn’t work. Whether one’s planning on saving oneself until marriage or not, a person needs a thorough understanding of sex, sexuality, sexual transmitted disease, pregnancy, etc.
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Rayboy said
Well … Tough one. i would say. Sex after marriage is the best possible experience a couple would have. Its like a piggy bank. you keep filling it up with coins, till its full. but while you are collecting the coins, you dream that you would buy something special with the amount you collected. You collected the amount after sooo long, and the patience pays.
cajie said
As in anything in life, it has it’s positives and negatives.
Positive: Yes, it’s a great feeling (for the man) to know that his wife is a virgin, and vice-versa. And if both are virgins, it will be a great experience for both to discover each other.
Negative: If the couple is sexually incompatible, they are screwed. I mean, they won’t get screwed actually, but literally.
Oh well, I think you know what I am talking about.
chillaxinleila said
Yes! lol…
Totally agree with you, except, sexual compatibility – well, I don’t actually agree that anyone is sexually compatible – well, not at first.
Obviously, you have confident and overconfident people.. and then the opposite those that are reserved….
Two people will grow to know each other and what satisfies each other..