How exactly do you describe love? Is that the point? It’s undescribeable?
Is it that feeling of having butterflies? The feeling that your lost in another world? The feeling that if you speak something stupid will come out? Is it the feeling that you can’t think about anyone else except him? Or, perhaps, the fact that when you get into bed at night he is the last thing you think about? First image in the morning when you wake up? Or the itimate dreams you have that you know you shouldn’t be having?
Is love hitting a high and then a low? Is it being hot and bothered when you think of him? Is it, when you see him, you feel like someone is putting pressure on your chest and you can’t breathe?
I asked a man to describe love; ladies, please note – this guy is one of a kind, I don’t believe there are many out there truly like him, I think I fell in love with him when he answered the question;
What do men think love is?
Connecting, wanting, having, needing, butterflies, the kissing the holding, the smiling, the sound of them breathing, to watching them sleep.. smiling when they smile, frowning otherwise… umm its the feeling of them being everything, and nothing else meaning anything… the mature way of being connected through thick and thin, hard and easy…to love and love and love to love..
I guess he is right, it’s the feeling of the other person being everything and nothing else meaning anything. The feeling that without them – you wouldn’t be you, that without them by your side you would find life impossible. Being loved and loving someone back is what love is all about amongst the other things that we take for granted. . .
When he touches your face, just that gentle stroke, when he kisses your forehead, plays with your hair- these things all mean something, these are the important things, even the silly arguements are what make your relationship special… My mother once told me; what happened the couple that didn’t fight? they lost the battle in love…… you can’t have a relationship and not have tiffs – they are what make your relationship YOUR relationship and noone elses. Those little things that irritate you are truly the things you love about him…….
A thought; Anyone can make you shed tears – it takes someone special to make shed tears because of joy.